

Let’s just all get along- and other stories.
Often I meet with a parent and hear that the hope, the goal when splitting up from their ex partner, was to get along- to work everything...


Be Careful What you Teach
Be Careful What you Teach It is my experience that most parents truly care about how conflict in divorce affects their child. Parents are...


For Co-Parents: The Rewards of Climbing Mount Conflict
For Co-Parents: The Rewards of Climbing Mount Conflict Have you ever been surprised to learn that you were in a completely different...


The Hardest Thing
The Hardest Thing. When you are going through a high conflict divorce, custody challenges or alienation, the hardest thing is often the...


Give a listen to a Podcast Interview for Divorcebuddy.co on Relational Neuroscience and Co-Parenting
https://soundcloud.com/user-866170031-75784182/kf004-kristine-clay-on-relational-neuroscience-based-co-parenting


Holidays: Integrating new traditions
Holidays, Loss and “New Norms”: Tips to recreate tradition The holiday times are generally experienced as a happy time yet can be...


Anchoring in Community
Anchoring: Developing a sense of community Isolation is never a good thing, in fact isolation is the enemy in most cases. If you have...


Tips for Anchoring in Community
Tips for increasing community anchors Sign the child up for activities they are interested in and make sure to attend yourself. Visit...


Is there danger?
Promoting Safety- what do I mean? We talk a lot of about the core need your child has for a sense of safety. By saying, this I am not...


Let's play.
Why play? Mr. Roger's said "plays allows us a safe distance as we work on what's close to our hearts." You've heard play is the work...









