<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Integrative Parent Coaching]]></title><description><![CDATA[kristine-clay]]></description><link>https://kristineclay.wixsite.com/kristine-clay/blank</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Sun, 05 Apr 2026 16:40:58 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://kristineclay.wixsite.com/kristine-clay/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Let’s just all get along- and other stories.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Often I meet with a parent and hear that the hope, the goal when splitting up from their ex partner, was to get along- to work everything...]]></description><link>https://kristineclay.wixsite.com/kristine-clay/single-post/2019/06/30/let-s-just-all-get-along-and-other-stories</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5fe1dfe6070e7000170cdcf0</guid><pubDate>Mon, 01 Jul 2019 03:36:52 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/22e199_4dcde8882d9e493ab52658d436cc57fd.jpg/v1/fit/w_333,h_333,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Kristine Clay PsyD</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Be Careful What you Teach]]></title><description><![CDATA[Be Careful What you Teach It is my experience that most parents truly care about how conflict in divorce affects their child. Parents are...]]></description><link>https://kristineclay.wixsite.com/kristine-clay/single-post/2016/05/29/be-careful-what-you-teach</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5fe1dfe6070e7000170cdceb</guid><pubDate>Sun, 29 May 2016 22:06:36 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/22e199_d0f771bf69b34c1eacb3b159c278c88a.jpg/v1/fit/w_288,h_288,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Kristine Clay PsyD</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[For Co-Parents: The Rewards of Climbing Mount Conflict]]></title><description><![CDATA[For Co-Parents: The Rewards of Climbing Mount Conflict Have you ever been surprised to learn that you were in a completely different...]]></description><link>https://kristineclay.wixsite.com/kristine-clay/single-post/2016/05/29/for-coparents-the-rewards-of-climbing-mount-conflict-1</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5fe1dfe6070e7000170cdcf1</guid><pubDate>Sun, 29 May 2016 21:34:29 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/22e199_d0f771bf69b34c1eacb3b159c278c88a.jpg/v1/fit/w_288,h_288,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Kristine Clay</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Hardest Thing]]></title><description><![CDATA[The Hardest Thing. When you are going through a high conflict divorce, custody challenges or alienation, the hardest thing is often the...]]></description><link>https://kristineclay.wixsite.com/kristine-clay/single-post/2015/12/08/the-hardest-thing</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5fe1dfe6070e7000170cdcea</guid><pubDate>Tue, 08 Dec 2015 05:31:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/22e199_d0f771bf69b34c1eacb3b159c278c88a.jpg/v1/fit/w_288,h_288,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Kristine Clay PsyD</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Give a listen to a Podcast Interview for Divorcebuddy.co on Relational Neuroscience and Co-Parenting]]></title><description><![CDATA[https://soundcloud.com/user-866170031-75784182/kf004-kristine-clay-on-relational-neuroscience-based-co-parenting]]></description><link>https://kristineclay.wixsite.com/kristine-clay/single-post/2015/12/02/give-a-listen-to-a-podcast-interview-for-divorcebuddyco-on-relational-neuroscience-and-co</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5fe1dfe6070e7000170cdce8</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2015 02:55:01 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/22e199_2bad37e4b33d4159a9efc5b96d9573dc.jpg/v1/fit/w_151,h_151,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Kristine Clay PsyD</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Holidays: Integrating new traditions]]></title><description><![CDATA[Holidays, Loss and “New Norms”: Tips to recreate tradition The holiday times are generally experienced as a happy time yet can be...]]></description><link>https://kristineclay.wixsite.com/kristine-clay/single-post/2015/12/02/holidays-integrating-new-traditions</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5fe1dfe6070e7000170cdcef</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2015 02:50:36 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/22e199_d0f771bf69b34c1eacb3b159c278c88a.jpg/v1/fit/w_288,h_288,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Kristine Clay</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Anchoring in Community]]></title><description><![CDATA[Anchoring: Developing a sense of community Isolation is never a good thing, in fact isolation is the enemy in most cases. If you have...]]></description><link>https://kristineclay.wixsite.com/kristine-clay/single-post/2015/10/25/anchoring-in-community</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5fe1dfe6070e7000170cdced</guid><pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2015 23:05:25 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/22e199_d0f771bf69b34c1eacb3b159c278c88a.jpg/v1/fit/w_288,h_288,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Kristine Clay</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Tips for Anchoring in Community]]></title><description><![CDATA[Tips for increasing community anchors Sign the child up for activities they are interested in and make sure to attend yourself. Visit...]]></description><link>https://kristineclay.wixsite.com/kristine-clay/single-post/2015/10/25/tips-for-anchoring-in-community</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5fe1dfe6070e7000170cdcec</guid><pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2015 23:03:07 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/22e199_d0f771bf69b34c1eacb3b159c278c88a.jpg/v1/fit/w_288,h_288,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Kristine Clay</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Is there danger?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Promoting Safety- what do I mean?  We talk a lot of about the core need your child has for a sense of safety. By saying, this I am not...]]></description><link>https://kristineclay.wixsite.com/kristine-clay/single-post/2015/09/20/is-there-danger</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5fe1dfe6070e7000170cdcee</guid><pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2015 01:47:18 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/22e199_d0f771bf69b34c1eacb3b159c278c88a.jpg/v1/fit/w_288,h_288,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Kristine Clay PsyD</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Let's play.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Why play?   Mr. Roger's said "plays allows  us a safe distance as we work on what's close to our hearts."   You've heard play is the work...]]></description><link>https://kristineclay.wixsite.com/kristine-clay/single-post/2015/09/20/lets-play</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5fe1dfe6070e7000170cdce9</guid><pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2015 01:45:32 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/22e199_d0f771bf69b34c1eacb3b159c278c88a.jpg/v1/fit/w_288,h_288,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Kristine Clay PsyD</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The importance of story]]></title><description><![CDATA[Helping  your child  build and restore a sense of story   Have you ever noticed how the world is filled with stories? Commercials, songs,...]]></description><link>https://kristineclay.wixsite.com/kristine-clay/single-post/2015/09/20/the-importance-of-story</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5fe1e00345ff690017fbe032</guid><pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2015 01:42:15 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/22e199_d0f771bf69b34c1eacb3b159c278c88a.jpg/v1/fit/w_288,h_288,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Kristine Clay PsyD</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why Integrative Parent Coaching?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Why this type of parent coaching?  Well let’s start with this – it is not because you are not a good enough parent. The fact that you are...]]></description><link>https://kristineclay.wixsite.com/kristine-clay/single-post/2015/09/20/why-integrative-parent-coaching</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5fe1e00345ff690017fbe031</guid><pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2015 01:38:19 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/22e199_d0f771bf69b34c1eacb3b159c278c88a.jpg/v1/fit/w_288,h_288,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Kristine Clay PsyD</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Tips for dealing with your child's emotions]]></title><description><![CDATA[Any child has off days. Kids going through struggles of a family separation or divorce have more off days and need extra support.  These...]]></description><link>https://kristineclay.wixsite.com/kristine-clay/single-post/2015/08/22/tips-for-dealing-with-your-childs-emotions</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5fe1e00345ff690017fbe034</guid><pubDate>Sat, 22 Aug 2015 01:07:10 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/22e199_d0f771bf69b34c1eacb3b159c278c88a.jpg/v1/fit/w_288,h_288,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Kristine Clay PsyD</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Function of Behavior]]></title><description><![CDATA[What is the function of behavior? Have you ever interacted with your child and been baffled why they are acting the way they are? New...]]></description><link>https://kristineclay.wixsite.com/kristine-clay/single-post/2015/07/28/the-function-of-behavior</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5fe1e00345ff690017fbe02f</guid><pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2015 02:41:03 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/22e199_d0f771bf69b34c1eacb3b159c278c88a.jpg/v1/fit/w_288,h_288,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Kristine Clay PsyD</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Kindness and Joining]]></title><description><![CDATA[Practice kindness. In all things but especially wherever you are currently struggling. Not giving up boundaries, but kindness while...]]></description><link>https://kristineclay.wixsite.com/kristine-clay/single-post/2015/03/25/kindness-and-joining</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5fe1e00345ff690017fbe02d</guid><pubDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2015 23:28:18 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/22e199_d0f771bf69b34c1eacb3b159c278c88a.jpg/v1/fit/w_288,h_288,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Kristine Clay PsyD</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Move towards, not away]]></title><description><![CDATA[Move toward, not away.  When your child misbehaves, is unkind, has an attitude or simply has a moment of defiance, how do you know what...]]></description><link>https://kristineclay.wixsite.com/kristine-clay/single-post/2015/03/11/move-towards-not-away</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5fe1e00345ff690017fbe033</guid><pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2015 05:32:05 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/22e199_d0f771bf69b34c1eacb3b159c278c88a.jpg/v1/fit/w_288,h_288,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Kristine Clay</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[A resiliency primer]]></title><description><![CDATA[Together we are working to build resiliency that will help your child navigate changes. Three vital areas of resiliency include a sense...]]></description><link>https://kristineclay.wixsite.com/kristine-clay/single-post/2015/03/01/a-resiliency-primer</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5fe1e00345ff690017fbe02e</guid><pubDate>Sun, 01 Mar 2015 04:09:16 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/22e199_d0f771bf69b34c1eacb3b159c278c88a.jpg/v1/fit/w_288,h_288,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Kristine Clay</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Courage of Adolescence]]></title><description><![CDATA[Teenagers....... Love them. They carry a bad rap for being rebellious, impulsive, risk-takers, mouthy and emotional. Really, I say they...]]></description><link>https://kristineclay.wixsite.com/kristine-clay/single-post/2015/03/01/the-courage-of-adolescence</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5fe1e00345ff690017fbe030</guid><pubDate>Sun, 01 Mar 2015 04:08:48 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/22e199_d0f771bf69b34c1eacb3b159c278c88a.jpg/v1/fit/w_288,h_288,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Kristine Clay</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Parents do your own work]]></title><description><![CDATA[We need to do our own work in order to help our children A quote from Dan Siegel:  "As children develop, their brains “mirror” their...]]></description><link>https://kristineclay.wixsite.com/kristine-clay/single-post/2015/03/01/parents-do-your-own-work</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5fe1e00345ff690017fbe02b</guid><pubDate>Sun, 01 Mar 2015 04:03:38 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/22e199_d0f771bf69b34c1eacb3b159c278c88a.jpg/v1/fit/w_288,h_288,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Kristine Clay PsyD</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Laugh to build the relationship and the brain]]></title><description><![CDATA[Today -lets considered joy.  Laughter really.  There are so many things in life pulling on it- both for you and your child if your...]]></description><link>https://kristineclay.wixsite.com/kristine-clay/single-post/2015/03/01/laugh-to-build-the-relationship-and-the-brain</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5fe1e00345ff690017fbe02c</guid><pubDate>Sun, 01 Mar 2015 04:01:58 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/22e199_d0f771bf69b34c1eacb3b159c278c88a.jpg/v1/fit/w_288,h_288,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Kristine Clay PsyD</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>